How to Create a Memorable Wedding Playlist for Brothers

As an experienced wedding DJ, I’ve assembled a list of songs about brothers. Songs are selected by the meaning of the song and popular hits by today’s marriers. Besides new and trending, additional lists are grouped by genre to match your taste in music.

Brothers are commonly left out at weddings in themed songs. I have you covered — as always, with a list of songs about brothers.

brother songs for weddings

Quick Tips

When picking out the song to play for your brother, you must consider the following 3 factors:

1. Does the song have a special meaning to both of you?
2. Does the song’s meaning describe your relationship?
3. What is the tempo of the song (fast or slow) to determine the style of dance that fits best (if you dance together)?

Brother Songs by Theme

Loving Him

A list of songs to let your brother know that you love him.

  • Brother – Alice In Chains
  • Brother’s Keeper – DaBaby
  • It’s Not Living (If It’s Not With You) – The 1975
  • Me And Baby Brother – War
  • My Brother – Sam Tompkins
  • My Brother – Justin Hayward & John Lodge

Being There

Enjoy songs that are about being there for your brother.

  • Brother – Home Free
  • Brother – Isaiah Paul
  • Brother – NEEDTOBREATHE
  • He Ain’t Heavy He’s My Brother – Neil Diamond
  • He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother – The Hollies

Be Your Own Man

On a groom’s big day, celebrate that he is making his own decisions and out on his own.

  • Brother – Brendan Kelly
  • I Lived – OneRepublic
  • Little Brother – Hootie & the Blowfish
  • My Little Brother – Art Brut
  • Superheroes – The Script

Brotherhood

Enjoy songs that celebrate the special bond between brothers, whether friends or family.

  • Blood Brothers – Luke Bryan
  • Blood Brothers – Papa Roach
  • Blood Brothers – Bruce Springsteen
  • Brothers – LOCASH
  • Brothers in Arms – DAGames
  • Brothers in Arms – Dire Straits
  • Hey Big Brother – Rare Earth
  • Hey Brother – Avicii
  • range brothers – Baby Keem & Kendrick Lamar

Special Bond

Tunes that honor the special bond that brothers have on your wedding day.

  • Big Brother – Kanye West
  • Boys Are Back In Town – Thin Lizzy
  • Brother – Kodaline
  • Brother – Brett Eldredge
  • Song for My Brother – Carlos Santana

Growing Up

A few songs sharing a message of growing up as siblings.

  • American Kids – Kenny Chesney
  • Brother Mine – Suzanne Vega
  • The Greatest Discovery – Elton John
  • The Suburbs – Arcade Fire

Fun & Unexpected

The most important tip I can give if you select a song is to select a song that is special to you. I hope these songs inspire you to find a meaningful song.

  • ABC – Jackson Five
  • Congratulations – Post Malone feat. Quavo
  • Crazy Rap (Colt 45 & 2 Zig Zags) – Afroman
  • Eye of the Tiger – Survivor
  • MMMBop – Hanson
  • My Brother’s a Basehead – De La Soul
  • Regulate – Warren G, Nate Dogg
  • Seven Nation Army – The White Stripes
  • Teenage Dirtbag – Wheatus

DJs! Plan a Brothers Song by BPM and Key

(Click on the Song, Artist, Key and BPM table columns for sorting)

SongArtistKeyBPM
The Greatest DiscoveryElton John8B67
He Ain't Heavy ... He's My BrotherNeil Diamond11B70
He Ain't Heavy, He's My BrotherThe Hollies9B76
Big BrotherKanye West10A78
Brothers in ArmsDire Straits1A79
Blood BrothersLuke Bryan2B81
BrotherBrendan Kelly10A91
BrotherAlice In Chains3B94
RegulateWarren G, Nate Dogg10A95
Teenage DirtbagWheatus12B95
My BrotherSam Tompkins10A96
Crazy Rap (Colt 45 & 2 Zig Zags)Afroman11B99
My BrotherJustin Hayward, John Lodge10B103
MMMBopHanson11B105
BrotherKodaline11B108
My Brother's a BaseheadDe La Soul11A109
Eye of the TigerSurvivor5A109
Brother MineSuzanne Vega9B109
BrothersLOCASH4B110
BrotherHome Free9B112
Hey BrotherAvicii10A114
Me And Baby BrotherWar10B114
Song for My BrotherDevadip Carlos Santana9A115
Blood BrothersBruce Springsteen10B116
The SuburbsArcade Fire11A118
I LivedOneRepublic11B120
It's Not Living (If It's Not With You)The 19753B121
range brothers (with Kendrick Lamar)Baby Keem, Kendrick Lamar10A122
CongratulationsPost Malone, Quavo2B123
Hey Big BrotherRare Earth10B124
Seven Nation ArmyThe White Stripes9A124
BrotherIsaiah Paul7B126
Brothers in ArmsDagames3B130
Little BrotherHootie & The Blowfish4B146
The Boys Are Back In TownThin Lizzy12B149
Brother’s KeeperDaBaby12A155
Brother (feat. Gavin DeGraw)NEEDTOBREATHE, Gavin DeGraw1B158
My Little BrotherArt Brut10A159
SuperheroesThe Script5B167
Blood BrothersPapa Roach7A169
American KidsKenny Chesney9B170
BrotherBrett Eldredge6B172
ABCThe Jackson 54B197

*BPM and key pulled from SongData.io

Spotify Brothers Playlist

I hope you enjoyed my list of brother songs. If you have a song not on my list, please comment on it below as I do read and respond to all comments.

Fun Facts

Brothers make great musicians and that is apparent when you listen to Van Halen, The Everly Brothers, and The Allman Brothers Band.

  • AC/DC (Malcolm and Angus Young)
    • Thunderstruck, Back In Black, You Shook Me All Night Long
  • Allman Brothers Band (Gregg and Duane Allman)
    • Ramblin’ Man, Midnight Rider, Jessica
  • Avett Brothers (Seth and Scott Avett)
    • Ain’t No Man, Murder in the City, I And Love And You
  • The Beach Boys (Brian and Dennis Wilson)
    • Help Me, Rhonda, I Get Around, Wouldn’t It Be Nice
  • Brothers Osborne (T.J. and John Osborne)
    • It Ain’t My Fault, Stay A Little Longer, Shoot Me Straight
  • Everly Brothers (Phil and Don Everly)
    • All I Have to Do Is Dream, Bird Dog, Bye Bye Love
  • Hanson (Taylor, Zac, and Isaac Hanson)
    • MMMBop, I Will Come To You, This Time Around
  • Isley Brothers (Ronald and Ernie Isley)
    • Shout, Groove With You, Voyage to Atlantis
  • Jackson 5 (Jermaine, Jackie, Tito, Marlon, Michael, and Randy)
    • ABC, Dancing Machine, I Want You Back
  • Jonas Brothers (Nick, Joe, and Kevin Jonas)
    • Cool, Only Human, Sucker
  • Kings of Leon (Caleb, Jared, and Nathan Followill
    • Use Somebody, Sex on Fire, Be Somebody
  • Oasis (Liam and Noel Gallagher)
    • Wonderwall, Don’t Look Back In Anger, Champagne Supernova
  • Rae Sremmurd (Slim Jxmmi and Swae Lee)
    • Black Beatles, Throw Sum Mo, Come Get Her
  • Righteous Brothers (Bill Medley & Bucky Heard, not blood brothers)
    • You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feelin’, Soul and Inspiration, Unchained Melody
  • Van Halen (Eddie and Alex Van Halen)
    • Jump, Dance the Night Away, Love Walks In

Whether you want to involve your brother at your wedding or honor him is up to you. Honor doesn’t only apply to the deceased. You can honor the living. With the way our families are blended these days, your brother might be the person who walks you down the aisle. He may be your best man or he may be asked to be the officiant.

Our preferred way to honor someone at a wedding is, you guessed it, a special song. It can be as obvious or subtle as you like. Talk to your professional wedding planner and DJ to find what best suits you.

If your brother walks you down the aisle, maybe he can help you choose that song. Maybe your brother stands in for your father in the father-daughter dance. If you and your brother are goofballs, then you may even do a coordinated dance. Don’t forget Brother’s Day is celebrated on May 24, so if your wedding is near that date, you may want to have a plan.

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