Sister Brother Songs To Celebrate Your Relationship On Your Big Day

As an experienced wedding DJ, I’ve assembled a list of songs for brothers and sisters at weddings. Songs are selected by the meaning of the song and popular hits by today’s couples. Besides new and trending, additional lists are grouped by genre to match your taste in music.

Did your big brother make a big impact on your life? Maybe he was your protector. He might even be your twin. Your childhood is full of memories together and you want to honor your relationship. Choosing a sister-brother song at your wedding honors a lifetime of memories.

sister and brother songs for weddings

Quick Tips

When picking out the song to play for your sister or brother, you must consider the following 3 factors:

1. Does the song have a special meaning to both of you?
2. Does the song’s meaning describe your relationship?
3. What is the tempo of the song (fast or slow) to determine the style of dance that fits best (if you dance together)?

Sister & Brother Songs by Theme

Dedication to Brother

These are songs that have a brother theme that you can dedicate to him.

  • Brotherly Love – Keith Whitley and Earl Thomas Conley
  • He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother – The Hollies
  • Hey Brother – Avicii
  • Hey Brother – Dan Tyminski
  • Little Brothers – Phineas and Ferb
  • My Brother Taught Me How to Swim – Passion Pit

Dedication to Sister

These are songs that have a sister theme that you can dedicate to her.

  • All My Life – Flo Rida
  • Come Some Rainy Day – Wynonna
  • Dance Little Sister – Rolling Stones
  • Dance Little Sister – Terence Trent D’Arby
  • Isn’t She Lovely – Stevie Wonder
  • Look at Little Sister – Stevie Ray Vaughan
  • My Big Sister – Barenaked Ladies
  • My Sister – Juliana Hatfield Three
  • My Sister – Reba McEntire
  • Oh, Sister – Bob Dylan
  • Older Sister – Carly Simon
  • Sister – Dave Matthews & Tim Reynolds
  • Sister – Nixons
  • Sister Christian – Night Ranger
  • Sister Oh Sister – Rodney Crowell & Mary Karr feat. Rosanne Cash

Brother Sister Relationship

A list of songs the celebrate a brother and sister relationship and being family.

  • Boss of Me – They Might Be Giants
  • Brother Mine – Suzanne Vega
  • Brother, Sister – Beta Radio
  • Come Dancing – Kinks
  • Footprints – Molly Kate Kestner
  • I Learned From You – Miley Cyrus and Billy Ray Cyrus
  • Orange Sky – Alexi Murdoch
  • Pollyanna’s Shadow – Howie D
  • We Are Family – Sister Sledge

Fun & Unexpected

Looking for a song to have a special moment with your sibling on your wedding day? These songs range from fun moments to songs that would be a surprise but appropriate.

  • CAN’T STOP THE FEELING! – Justin Timberlake
  • Come On Get Happy – Partridge Family
  • Happier – Marshmello, Bastille
  • Happy – Pharrell Williams
  • Mr. Blue Sky – Weezer
  • Mr. Blue Sky – Electric Light Orchestra
  • Rainbow Connection – Brian McKnight
  • Rainbow Connection – JJ Heller
  • Rainbow Connection – Kermit the Frog
  • White Wedding – Billy Idol

About Girls

If your sister is the one getting married, these songs pay tribute to her to lift her up as a powerful woman as it is her day.

  • American Girl – Tom Petty
  • Dancing Queen – ABBA
  • Girl on Fire – Alicia Keys

Growing Up

Here is a list of songs about growing up and your hometown as a tribute.

  • American Honey – Lady A
  • It Don’t Have to Change – John Legend feat. The Stephens Family
  • We Are Going to Be Friends – White Stripes
  • We Were Just Kids – Clean Bandit feat. Craig David & Kirsten Joy
  • Whenever You Remember – Carrie Underwood
  • Who Says You Can’t Go Home – Bon Jovi and Jennifer Nettles

Friendship

If you and your sister or brother are best friends, these songs help to share that friendship.

  • Best Friend – Brandy
  • Best Friends – Missy Elliott feat. Aaliyah
  • Brother – Kodaline
  • My Best Friend – Weezer
  • You’re My Best Friend – Queen
  • You’ve Got A Friend – James Taylor
  • You’ve Got A Friend in Me – Randy Newman

Hope for the Future

No matter who you are today, these songs give hope for a brighter future.

  • Better Place – Rachel Platten
  • Brother Sister – Brand New Heavies
  • Brothers & Sisters – Coldplay
  • Don’t Forget to Remember Me – Carrie Underwood
  • Have It All – Jason Mraz
  • I Hope You Dance – Lee Ann Womack
  • I Wish You Love – Nat King Cole
  • Into the Mystic – Van Morrison
  • Just Fine – Mary J. Blige
  • Landslide – Fleetwood Mac
  • My Wish – Rascal Flatts
  • Over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole
  • Wildflowers – Tom Petty

Supporting Each Other

Now that your sibling is moving on to live their life with their new partner, these songs tell them that you will still be there for the road ahead.

  • Count On Me – Bruno Mars
  • Count On Me – Whitney Houston & CeCe Winans
  • Have I Told You Lately – Rod Stewart
  • Hero – Mariah Carey
  • I’ll Be Here – Colbie Caillat, Sheryl Crow
  • I’ll Be There – Jackson 5
  • I’ll Be There for You – The Rembrandts
  • Keep Holding On – Avril Lavigne
  • Lean On Me – Bill Withers
  • Love You True (String Sessions) – Lydia Luce
  • Stand By Me – Ben E King
  • There You’ll Be – Faith Hill
  • When You Need It – Tenille Townes feat. Wrabel
  • You’ll Be In My Heart – Phil Collins
  • Your Guardian Angel – Red Jumpsuit Apparatus

DJs! Plan a Sister-Brother Song by BPM and Key

(Click on the Song, Artist, Key and BPM table columns for sorting)

SongArtistKeyBPM
Love You True (String Sessions)Lydia Luce10B74
Lean on MeBill Withers8B75
Brother SisterThe Brand New Heavies7B76
He Ain't Heavy, He's My BrotherThe Hollies9B76
Don't Forget to Remember MeCarrie Underwood10B79
Have It AllJason Mraz12A82
Sister - Live at Radio City Music Hall, New York, NY - April 2007Dave Matthews, Tim Reynolds11B83
American HoneyLady A3B86
Into the Mystic - 2013 RemasterVan Morrison4B86
Over the RainbowIsrael Kamakawiwo'ole8B86
WildflowersTom Petty7B87
Sister Oh SisterRodney Crowell, Mary Karr, Rosanne Cash1B89
Count on MeBruno Mars8B89
Girl on FireAlicia Keys11B92
You've Got a FriendJames Taylor11B92
I'll Be ThereThe Jackson 57B93
You'll Be In My HeartPhil Collins4B97
My Big SisterBarenaked Ladies11B99
Pollyanna's ShadowHowie D3B99
HappierMarshmello, Bastille7B100
We Were Just Kids (feat. Craig David & Kirsten Joy)Clean Bandit, Craig David, Kirsten Joy8B100
Better PlaceRachel Platten8B100
Dancing QueenABBA11B101
Older SisterCarly Simon3B104
All My LifeFlo Rida8B106
BrotherKodaline11B108
I'll Be HereColbie Caillat, Sheryl Crow1B109
Brother MineSuzanne Vega9B109
Little BrothersStacy10B112
Look at Little SisterStevie Ray Vaughan4B112
Brotherly LoveKeith Whitley, Earl Thomas Conley12B113
Your Guardian AngelThe Red Jumpsuit Apparatus7B113
CAN'T STOP THE FEELING! (from DreamWorks Animation's "TROLLS")Justin Timberlake8B113
Hey BrotherAvicii10A114
American GirlTom Petty and the Heartbreakers10B114
Brothers & SistersColdplay12A114
Count On Me - from "Waiting to Exhale" - Original SoundtrackWhitney Houston, CeCe Winans9A114
We Are FamilySister Sledge10B115
Rainbow Connection - From "The Muppet Movie"/Soundtrack VersionKermit11B115
Dance Little SisterSananda Maitreya7A115
You've Got a Friend in MeRandy Newman5A116
Stand By MeBen E. King11B118
Isn't She LovelyStevie Wonder12A119
It Don't Have to Change (feat. The Stephens Family)John Legend, The Stephens Family8B119
You're My Best Friend - Remastered 2011Queen8B119
HeroMariah Carey11B120
Whenever You RememberCarrie Underwood7B120
Just FineMary J. Blige10A123
Oh, SisterBob Dylan9B123
Orange SkyAlexi Murdoch10B125
Brother, SisterBeta Radio3B126
We're Going to Be FriendsThe White Stripes5B128
There You'll BeFaith Hill4B129
Best Friends (feat. Aaliyah)Missy Elliott, Aaliyah5A132
Who Says You Can't Go HomeBon Jovi, Jennifer Nettles9B132
My Best FriendWeezer5B133
When You Need It (feat. Wrabel)Tenille Townes, Wrabel10B134
My Brother Taught Me How to SwimPassion Pit8B135
My WishRascal Flatts12B136
FootprintsMolly Kate Kestner6B136
Rainbow ConnectionBrian McKnight11B137
My SisterThe Juliana Hatfield Three1B137
Come Some Rainy DayWynonna2B137
Rainbow ConnectionJJ Heller10B139
I Wish You Love - Live At The Sands/1960/Remastered 2002Nat King Cole, Ron McMaster10B141
Hey BrotherDan Tyminski6A142
Come On Get Happy - The Partridge Family ThemeDavid Cassidy6B142
Have I Told You LatelyRod Stewart6B143
Boss Of MeThey Might Be Giants8B144
White WeddingBilly Idol11B147
I Learned From YouMiley Cyrus, Billy Ray Cyrus8B150
I Hope You DanceLee Ann Womack6A151
Come DancingThe Kinks9B152
Dance Little SisterThe Rolling Stones10B153
LandslideFleetwood Mac6A159
Happy - From "Despicable Me 2"Pharrell Williams4A160
Keep Holding OnAvril Lavigne9B161
SisterThe Nixons2B171
Mr. Blue SkyWeezer6B176
Sister ChristianNight Ranger7B177
Mr. Blue SkyElectric Light Orchestra6B178
Best FriendBrandy11A180
My SisterReba McEntire10B188
I'll Be There for You - Theme From "Friends"The Rembrandts11B191

*BPM and key pulled from SongData.io

Spotify Sister and Brother Playlist

Do you have a favorite sister and brother song not on my list? Please share your song below in the comments.

Fun Facts

Maybe your brother doesn’t want to dance. That’s okay, too. You can include your brother in your wedding party. Many wedding couples are breaking traditional gender roles such as bridesmaids and groomsmen. So your brother can definitely be the bride’s best man.

If your brother is shy, he can be an usher or officiant. Talk to your wedding coordinator and future husband. You don’t want surprises, though, on the day of.

There is no official wedding rule saying your bridesmaids or wedding party members actually have to be men or women! Instead, nominate your brothers or siblings who aren’t women as bridesmen or bridal party members. The same goes for groomswomen!

Remember, this is your celebration. Talk about the options with each other and be happy with your decisions.

Talk with your bride-to-be to see how important it is to her that you include her brother as a groomsman. If it would mean a great deal to her, or if she’s including your sister in her bridal party, it’s probably worth honoring her brother with the title of groomsman. If it is not important to her, you could always include him as an usher.

Typically during a wedding ceremony, the only members of the wedding party that walk down the aisle are the wedding couple, bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl and ring bearer, and the parents and grandparents. However, you can have honorary family members walk down the aisle if you wish!

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