Best Sister and Brother Wedding Songs: Celebrating a Lifelong Bond

While the parent dances often pull at the heartstrings, the sibling dance is where the true “legacy of friendship” shines. Whether it’s a brother walking his sister down the aisle or a dedicated dance during the reception, this moment honors the person who has been by your side since day one. They are the keepers of your childhood memories and your first real partners in crime.

As a wedding DJ, I’ve seen sibling dances become a standout trend for 2026. Many couples are now opting for “Side-by-Side Tributes” – using this dance to acknowledge a brother or sister who has been a pillar of strength. From protective “big brother” anthems to sentimental “sisterly” ballads, these songs are selected to reflect a bond that is built on more than just DNA; it’s built on a lifetime of choosing to be friends.

Planning Your Sibling Tribute

Because the dynamic between siblings can range from deeply emotional to “dance-off” fun, choosing the right track is all about the vibe of your relationship. Consider these 2026 expert DJ tips:

• The “Shared Childhood” Filter: In 2026, many siblings are choosing “Nostalgia Hits.” Instead of a generic “love” song, think back to the music you listened to in the car together or the theme song of a show you both loved. Tracks like “You’ve Got a Friend in Me” or a 90s/00s pop throwback create an instant “insider” moment that guests love to witness.
• The “Support System” Ballad: If your sibling has played a parental or protective role in your life, look for lyrics of “Reliability.” I recommend songs with a Mid-Tempo (75–90 BPM) that feel steady and supportive. Tracks like “Lean on Me” or “Count on Me” allow for a meaningful dance that doesn’t feel overly formal or stiff.
• The “Micro-Mix” for Multiple Siblings: If you have more than one brother or sister you want to honor, don’t feel pressured to do three full dances. In 2026, I suggest a “Sibling Medley.” Have your DJ mix together 45-second snippets of a different song for each sibling. It keeps the energy moving and ensures everyone gets their moment in the spotlight without slowing down the reception flow.
• Avoid the “Romantic Trap”: This is the most common concern for sibling dances. To keep it appropriate, avoid songs that mention “lovers” or “romance.” As a DJ, I steer couples toward songs about “Roots,” “Home,” and “Friendship.” If you love a melody but the lyrics are too romantic, look for an Instrumental or Acoustic version to maintain the vibe while keeping the focus on your family bond.

Explore my curated list of sister and brother songs below, categorized by relationship style, from “Sentimental Classics” to “Upbeat & Playful”, to find the melody that tells your family story.

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Sister & Brother Songs by Theme

Dedication to Brother

These are songs that have a brother theme that you can dedicate to him.

• Brotherly Love – Keith Whitley and Earl Thomas Conley
• He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother – The Hollies
• Hey Brother – Avicii
• Hey Brother – Dan Tyminski
• Little Brothers – Phineas and Ferb
• My Brother Taught Me How to Swim – Passion Pit

Dedication to Sister

These are songs that have a sister theme that you can dedicate to her.

• All My Life – Flo Rida
• Come Some Rainy Day – Wynonna
• Dance Little Sister – Rolling Stones
• Dance Little Sister – Terence Trent D’Arby
• Isn’t She Lovely – Stevie Wonder
• Look at Little Sister – Stevie Ray Vaughan
• My Big Sister – Barenaked Ladies
• My Sister – Juliana Hatfield Three
• My Sister – Reba McEntire
• Oh, Sister – Bob Dylan
• Older Sister – Carly Simon
• Sister – Dave Matthews & Tim Reynolds
• Sister – Nixons
• Sister Christian – Night Ranger
• Sister Oh Sister – Rodney Crowell & Mary Karr feat. Rosanne Cash

Brother Sister Relationship

A list of songs the celebrate a brother and sister relationship and being family.

• Boss of Me – They Might Be Giants
• Brother Mine – Suzanne Vega
• Brother, Sister – Beta Radio
• Come Dancing – Kinks
• Footprints – Molly Kate Kestner
• I Learned From You – Miley Cyrus and Billy Ray Cyrus
• Orange Sky – Alexi Murdoch
• Pollyanna’s Shadow – Howie D
• We Are Family – Sister Sledge

Fun & Unexpected

Looking for a song to have a special moment with your sibling on your wedding day? These songs range from fun moments to songs that would be a surprise but appropriate.

• CAN’T STOP THE FEELING! – Justin Timberlake
• Come On Get Happy – Partridge Family
• Happier – Marshmello, Bastille
• Happy – Pharrell Williams
• Mr. Blue Sky – Weezer
• Mr. Blue Sky – Electric Light Orchestra
• Rainbow Connection – Brian McKnight
• Rainbow Connection – JJ Heller
• Rainbow Connection – Kermit the Frog
• White Wedding – Billy Idol

About Girls

If your sister is the one getting married, these songs pay tribute to her to lift her up as a powerful woman as it is her day.

• American Girl – Tom Petty
• Dancing Queen – ABBA
• Girl on Fire – Alicia Keys

Growing Up

Here is a list of songs about growing up and your hometown as a tribute.

• American Honey – Lady A
• It Don’t Have to Change – John Legend feat. The Stephens Family
• We Are Going to Be Friends – White Stripes
• We Were Just Kids – Clean Bandit feat. Craig David & Kirsten Joy
• Whenever You Remember – Carrie Underwood
• Who Says You Can’t Go Home – Bon Jovi and Jennifer Nettles

Friendship

If you and your sister or brother are best friends, these songs help to share that friendship.

• Best Friend – Brandy
• Best Friends – Missy Elliott feat. Aaliyah
• Brother – Kodaline
• My Best Friend – Weezer
• You’re My Best Friend – Queen
• You’ve Got A Friend – James Taylor
• You’ve Got A Friend in Me – Randy Newman

Hope for the Future

No matter who you are today, these songs give hope for a brighter future.

• Better Place – Rachel Platten
• Brother Sister – Brand New Heavies
• Brothers & Sisters – Coldplay
• Don’t Forget to Remember Me – Carrie Underwood
• Have It All – Jason Mraz
• I Hope You Dance – Lee Ann Womack
• I Wish You Love – Nat King Cole
• Into the Mystic – Van Morrison
• Just Fine – Mary J. Blige
• Landslide – Fleetwood Mac
• My Wish – Rascal Flatts
• Over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole
• Wildflowers – Tom Petty

Supporting Each Other

Now that your sibling is moving on to live their life with their new partner, these songs tell them that you will still be there for the road ahead.

• Count On Me – Bruno Mars
• Count On Me – Whitney Houston & CeCe Winans
• Have I Told You Lately – Rod Stewart
• Hero – Mariah Carey
• I’ll Be Here – Colbie Caillat, Sheryl Crow
• I’ll Be There – Jackson 5
• I’ll Be There for You – The Rembrandts
• Keep Holding On – Avril Lavigne
• Lean On Me – Bill Withers
• Love You True (String Sessions) – Lydia Luce
• Stand By Me – Ben E King
• There You’ll Be – Faith Hill
• When You Need It – Tenille Townes feat. Wrabel
• You’ll Be In My Heart – Phil Collins
• Your Guardian Angel – Red Jumpsuit Apparatus

DJs! Plan a Sister-Brother Song by BPM and Key

(Click on the Song, Artist, Key and BPM table columns for sorting)

*BPM and key pulled from SongData.io

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Do you have a favorite sister and brother song not on my list? Please share your song below in the comments.

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