Wedding Dinner Music & Cocktail Hour Songs
Wedding background dinner music sets the tone for the entire reception. It can be played as early as when the guests arrive at the reception. Many times the wedding party is busy with the photographer at this point, anyway.
When Do You Play Wedding Dinner Music?
Play dinner music in the background as early as the cocktail hour and right up until the couple’s first dance. You can choose to have a cocktail hour before dinner or skip it. You may even want to change the vibe of the music for cocktail hour and calm it down for dinner.
Background dinner music continues until the end of the main course at a wedding reception. Depending on the chain of events selected by the wedding couple, background dinner music usually plays for about an hour and a half. Need help with the order of events? View our common format of a wedding reception article.
Table of Contents:
- Dinner/Cocktail Music Songs
- Dinner/Cocktail Music Songs Spotify Playlist
- Questions about Dinner/Cocktail Music
The Best Background Songs to Play?
What vibe do you prefer while you’re eating? Something fast or something relaxed? Do you want to honor a genre or a memory? We want to know your favorites, too. What dinner background or cocktail hour songs should we add to our list?
Dinner & Cocktail background music song list curated by Matthew Campbell
Last Updated: September 27, 2021
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| Song | Amazon Link | |
|---|---|---|
| Aexcit & HILLA Dancing In The Moonlight 2020, EDM |  | |
| Andy Grammer with Elle King Best of You 2020, Pop | | |
| Angelina Jordan Bohemian Rhapsody 2020, Pop | | |
| Antoine Dunn I’m Yours 2020, Pop | | |
| Ariana Grande pov 2020, Pop | | |
| Arkells All Roads 2021, Rock | | |
| Backstreet Boys I Want It That Way 1999, Pop | | |
| Bill Withers Lovely Day 1977, R&B | | |
| Blake Shelton feat. Gwen Stefani Happy Anywhere 2020, Country | | |
| Bob Marley One Love / People Get Ready (Medley) 1977, Reggae | | |
| Brian Kelley Songs For You 2021, Country | | |
| Bruno Mars, Anderson .Paak, Silk Sonic Leave the Door Open 2021, R&B | | |
| Bruno Mars Just The Way You Are 2010, Pop | | |
| Caleb and Kelsey From the Ground Up 2019, Country | | |
| Calvin Richardson Ain’t Nothin Like The One I’ve Got 2019, R&B | | |
| Cardigans Lovefool 1996, Pop | | |
| Chainsmokers & Coldplay Something Just Like This 2017, Dance | | |
| Charlie Wilson One I Got 2020, R&B | | |
| Coldplay, BTS My Universe 2021, Alternative | | |
| Dan + Shay Steal My Love 2021, Country | | |
| Darius Rucker My Masterpiece 2021, Country | | |
| Devin Dawson Whatever Forever Is 2021, Country | | |
| Dirty Heads Headspace 2021, Rock | | |
| DJ Khaled feat. Justin Bieber, Quavo, Chance the Rapper & Lil Wayne I’m the One 2017, Hip Hop | | |
| Drew Holcomb & Ellie Holcomb Electricity 2019, Pop | | |
| Dylan Rockoff with Caroline Kole You're the One That I Want 2019, Pop | | |
| Ed Sheeran Shivers 2021, Pop | | |
| Elton John, Dua Lipa Cold Heart (PNAU Remix) 2021, Pop | | |
| Eric Roberson Already Knew You 2020, R&B | | |
| Harry Styles Adore You 2019, Pop | | |
| Hil St. Soul, Noel Gourdin Blessed 2021, R&B | | |
| Howie Day Collide 2003, Pop | | |
| Hunter Metts 20,000 Kisses 2021, Pop | | |
| Imaginary Future Here Comes the Sun 2017, Indie | | |
| Jackson 5 ABC 1970, R&B | | |
| Jagged Edge feat. Run Let's Get Married (ReMarqable Remix) 2000, R&B | | |
| Jason Derulo Marry Me 2013, Pop | | |
| Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat Lucky 2008, Pop | | |
| Jason Mraz Have It All 2018, Pop | | |
| Jeff Goldblum & The Mildred Snitzer Orchestra & Haley Reinhart My Baby Just Cares For Me 2018, Jazz | | |
| Jeremy Loops 'Til I Found You 2020, Indie | | |
| Jess Glynne I’ll Be There 2018, Pop | | |
| Joey Stamper The Way You Look Tonight 2020, Pop | | |
| John Legend x BloodPop® A Good Night 2018, R&B | | |
| John Mayer New Light 2018, Pop | | |
| Justin Bieber Anyone 2021, Pop | | |
| Kane Brown Live Forever 2018, Country | | |
| Kem, Wiz Khalifa Lie To Me (Remix) 2021, R&B | | |
| King Calaway World For Two 2019. Country | | |
| King Harvest Dancing in the Moonlight 1972, Rock | | |
| KSI Holiday 2021, Pop | | |
| Lamone, Najee You Complete Me 2021, R&B | | |
| Larry Graham When We Get Married 1980, Pop | | |
| Lauryn Hill Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You 1998, R&B | | |
| Leon Bridges Coming Home 2015, R&B | | |
| Leon Bridges Steam 2021, R&B | | |
| Leslie Odom, Jr u r my everything 2019, Pop | | |
| LP Lost on You 2017, Rock | | |
| Lucas Estrada & AJ Salvatore Kiss Me 2020, EDM | | |
| Lukas Graham Love Someone 2018, Pop | | |
| Majid Jordan Waves of Blue 2021, R&B | | |
| Marilyn McCoo, Billy Davis Jr. Silly Love Songs 2021, R&B | | |
| Mario Let Me Love You 2004, R&B | | |
| Mark Cohn Walking in Memphis 2005, Rock | | |
| Matt White Love 2013, Pop Rock | | |
| Michael Franti & Spearhead, Cherine Tanya Anderson Say Hey (I Love You) 2008, Reggae | | |
| Miranda Lambert, Maren Morris, Elle King, Ashley McBryde, Tenille Townes & Caylee Hammack Fooled Around and Fell in Love 2019, Country | | |
| Morgan Evans Love Is Real 2021, Country | | |
| Music Travel Love When You Say Nothing at All 2019, Pop | | |
| Nao feat. Adekunle Gold Antidote 2021, R&B | | |
| Natalie Cole This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) 1974, R&B | | |
| Parmalee & Blanco Brown Just the Way 2019, Country | | |
| Phil Soda and GoodLuck Dreams 2020, EDM | | |
| Pj Morton How Deep Is Your Love 2017, R&B | | |
| Plain White T’s 1,2,3,4 2008, Pop | | |
| Post Malone Only Wanna Be With You (Pokémon 25 Version) 2021, Pop | | |
| Prince Kiss 1986, Pop | | |
| Ray LaMontagne I Was Born To Love You 2020, Indie | | |
| Robin Thicke Lucky Star 2021, R&B | | |
| Rotimi Love Somebody 2020, R&B | | |
| Secondhand Serenade Fall For You 2008, Rock | | |
| Shaggy feat. Rayvon Angel 2000, Pop | | |
| Sting If It's Love 2021, Rock | | |
| Tai Verdes, 24kGoldn A-O-K 2021, Alternative | | |
| Taylor Swift Wildest Dreams (Taylor's Version) 2021, Pop | | |
| Teddy Swims Blowin’ Smoke 2021, Pop | | |
| Tenille Townes feat. Keelan Donovan The Way You Look Tonight 2020, Country | | |
| The Bellas Love On Top 2020, Pop | | |
| The Isley Brothers Friends & Family 2021, R&B | | |
| The Weeknd feat. Kenny G In Your Eyes (Remix) 2020, R&B Jazz | | |
| Thompson Square Are You Gonna Kiss Me Or Not 2011, Country | | |
| Tony Bennett, Lady Gaga I Get A Kick Out Of You 2021, Jazz | | |
| twenty one pilots Saturday 2021, R&B | | |
| Tyler Rich Real Love 2020, Country | | |
| Us The Duo There Is Only One You 2020, Folk Pop | | |
| Vance Joy Missing Piece 2021, Indie | | |
| Wayne Brady feat. Cat Gray Flirtin' w / Forever 2019, R&B | | |
| Wilder Woods heavenly light (work tape) 2021, Folk | | |
| Yann Muller Just the Two of Us 2019, Just the Two of Us | | |
| Zita feat. Jonah Baker Watermelon Sugar 2020, Pop | | |
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How Much Dinner Music Does a Wedding Reception Need?
That is a great question. The short answer is that it depends. This is why, as a wedding couple, you should have a conversation with your wedding planner and the DJ.
If the wedding dinner is a formal, sit-down dinner with courses, you may need at least an hour. Add another half hour for pre-dinner cocktails. Your wedding planner will help you decide when the dinner music should end.
“But in a restaurant, you want to have peaks and valleys that reflect the average time that a guest dines—every 2 1/2 to 3 hours you want to turn that energy up.” Charlie Reyes
A black-tie event will have different background music than a backyard cookout. Music outdoors can be louder because the sound will escape the area. Your professional DJ should be given a tour of the dinner space so they can properly place speakers and play the correct volume.
Background Music Isn’t Dance Music
We know that “Baby Got Back” brings back some great memories, but your wedding guests are trying to eat. You know Aunt Margaret is going to get up and start dancing in the middle of the courses if you play that song. Don’t let her embarrass herself — at least yet.
“Never waste a good party song on your cocktail hour. Save those crowd-pleasers for later.” Wedding Shoppe, Inc.
Think about dinner music as background music — music barely noticed. It sets the tone for the evening. It allows people to have conversations. It’s not the dominant sound. It’s in the back of the noise.
Dinner Music & Cocktail Hour Ideas
One way to choose the wedding dinner music is to honor a relative that has passed. You can do this by including their favorite genre or song. It’s a gentle nod and not a distraction.
Some sites say never to play Michael Bublé, we’re not going that route. Choose what makes you feel comfortable. Better yet, have a conversation with your wedding planner and professional DJ. Professional DJs are music historians; they choose music to set the tone.
“Start low. As the place fills, keep turning it up. Volume should be loud enough that you can have a conversation with your friends next to you, but not able to fully listen in on a conversation the next table over.” Rogan Howitt
We could literally list millions of songs in all different music styles. That’s impossible. We will guide you through a mixture of old and new songs in a few music styles. Know your guests and their music likes. Stick to your wedding’s theme, too.
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Hi, music plays an important role in dinner and cocktail party. It helps to create a different environment. Thank you for sharing it.