First Dance Songs for I Can’t Help Falling In Love With You

As an experienced wedding DJ, I’ve assembled a list of songs for the spotlight first dance. Songs are selected by the meaning of the song and popular hits by today’s couples and other categorical groupings.

I have attended hundreds of weddings and have seen many first dances take place. This includes my own wedding to Tanya Tucker’s song “Two Sparrows In A Hurricane”. What song will play for your spotlight dance?

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Photo Credit: M Place Productions @mplacepro

Quick Tips

1. Select a song that has special meaning to both of you.
2. Read the song’s lyrics to determine if the meaning of the song matches your love story.
3. Does the song’s music style match your music tastes?
4. Know the song’s tempo (fast to slow) to determine the style of dance that fits best.
5. Practice your first dance with the song you chose in similar wedding attire in your kitchen.

Dance Songs by Theme

Modern Romance

These songs represent a list of popular modern love songs chosen by many of today’s couples.

  • All of Me – John Legend & Lindsey Stirling
  • All the Way – Shane Smith & the Saints
  • All Your’n – Tyler Childers
  • Amazing – Teddy Swims
  • Amen – John Adams
  • Baby I’m Yours – Arctic Monkeys
  • Beautiful Crazy – Luke Combs
  • Better Together – Luke Combs
  • Beyond – Leon Bridges
  • Conversations In The Dark – John Legend
  • Dance With You – Brett Young
  • Find Someone Like You – Snoh Aalegra
  • First Date (Acoustic) – Taylor Acorn
  • Forever After All – Luke Combs
  • From The Ground Up – Dan + Shay
  • I Am Yours – Andy Grammer
  • In Case You Didn’t Know – Brett Young
  • In Your Love – Tyler Childers
  • Joy of My Life – Chris Stapleton
  • Life With You – Kelsey Hart
  • Lifetime – Justin Bieber
  • Love Someone – Lukas Graham
  • Love You Anyway – Devon Gilfillian
  • Love You Anyway – Luke Combs
  • Lover – Taylor Swift
  • Made For Me – Muni Long
  • Made to Love You – Drew Angus
  • My Best Friend – Tim McGraw
  • My Person (Wedding Version) – Spencer Crandall
  • Never Stop (Wedding Version) – SafetySuit
  • Perfect – Ed Sheeran
  • Perfect For Me – Bradley Marshall
  • Pointless – Lewis Capaldi
  • Promise to Love Her – Blane Howard
  • Say You Won’t Let Go – James Arthur
  • Sent From Heaven – Rahsaan Patterson
  • Tennessee Whiskey – Chris Stapleton
  • That’s What Love Is – Alexandra Kay
  • Until I Found You – Stephen Sanchez
  • You (Acoustic) – Dan + Shay

New

A list of newly released love songs you should consider for your first dance before they catch on!

  • 10-90 – Muscadine Bloodline
  • All I Want Is You – The Decemberists
  • ALL MY LOVE – Coldplay
  • Always You – Skip Ewing
  • Fade Into You – Sponge
  • Forever – Noah Kahan
  • Forever To Me – Cole Swindell
  • Invisible – Knox
  • Last Lover – Tommee Profitt & Stanaj
  • Let’s Fall In Love – Raheem DeVaughn
  • Lose Her Forever – Jon Langston
  • Lost in You (Remix) – Jade Novah & Kevin Ross
  • Love Of My Life – Dean Lewis
  • Seven Lions, SLANDER, & Dabin – First Time feat. Dylan Matthew
  • Warrior – Jana Kramer
  • Wondering Why – The Red Clay Strays

Classic Romance

Many love songs from the past are still popular today to play for first dances. Here are a few.

  • Amazed – Lonestar
  • At Last – Etta James
  • Bless the Broken Road – Rascal Flatts
  • Can’t Help Falling In Love – Elvis Presley
  • Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You – Frankie Valli
  • Everything – Mary J. Blige
  • I Cross My Heart – George Strait
  • I Don’t Want To Miss A Thing – Aerosmith
  • Stand By Me – Ben E. King
  • The Way You Look Tonight – Frank Sinatra
  • Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton

Duets

My list of love songs that feature a duet of two musicians performing a love song. This is a great way to highlight and dance to your first dance as a married couple.

  • Anything For You (The Duet) – Ledisi & PJ Morton
  • Best Part – H.E.R. feat. Daniel Caesar
  • If You Love Her – Forest Blakk feat. Meghan Trainor
  • Like I’m Gonna Lose You – Meghan Trainor feat. John Legend
  • Never Til Now – Ashley Cooke, Brett Young
  • Nobody But You – Blake Shelton, Gwen Stefani
  • Space In My Heart – Enrique Iglesias, Miranda Lambert
  • Thank God – Kane Brown & Katelyn Brown
  • The Rest of Our Life – Tim McGraw & Faith Hill
  • You Are The Reason – Calum Scott & Leona Lewis

LGBTQ+

A list of love songs performed by artists part of the LGBTQ+ community and have a genderless reference to love.

  • Biblical – Calum Scott
  • Heaven – Calum Scott
  • If There Was No You – Brandi Carlile
  • Imagine (Acoustic) – Ben Platt
  • Never Love You Enough – Chely Wright
  • Sweet Symphony – Joy Oladokun, Chris Stapleton

Movies & TV

Even though it is only a couple of songs, these songs became massive hits from being featured in films or TV shows.

  • A Thousand Years – Christina Perri (Twilight)
  • I’ll Never Love Again – Lady Gaga (A Star Is Born)

Unique

These songs are a list of non-traditional tracks to play for your dance that you can call uniquely yours because they are not played at most weddings.

  • Best Friend – Pacific Skyway
  • Dressed Up In White – Cal
  • Evermore – Hollow Coves
  • Forever From Now – Sheffield
  • I GUESS I’M IN LOVE – Clinton Kane
  • I Will Spend My Whole Life Loving You – I. Future & K. Grannis
  • If I Didn’t Love You – Ben Abraham
  • Luckiest Man – Clark Beckham

Upbeat and Fun

If you are one of those couples who want to add a bit of your fun personality to your dance or want to mix in an unexpected song with a romantic hit, this list is for you.

  • Dancing Queen – ABBA
  • I Wanna Dance With Somebody – Whitney Houston
  • September – Earth, Wind & Fire
  • Shut Up and Dance – Walk the Moon
  • You Are The Best Thing – Ray Lamontagne

Written for a Dance

The following songs were written specifically for a first dance or at least a romantic dance in mind.

  • Always Gonna Love You (First Dance Version) – Alana Springsteen
  • First Dance – Hasan Green
  • First Dancin’ – 2 Lane Summer
  • Growing Old With You (First Dance Version) – Restless Road
  • Lover (First Dance Remix) – Taylor Swift
  • Spin You Around (1/24) – Morgan Wallen

DJs! Plan a First Dance Song by BPM and Key

(Click on the Song, Artist, Key and BPM column headers for sorting)

SongArtistKeyBPM
Tennessee WhiskeyChris Stapleton11B49
All the WayShane Smith & the Saints8B57
Anything For You (The Duet)Ledisi, PJ Morton10B60
Love You AnywayDevon Gilfillian3A65
Lover - First Dance RemixTaylor Swift9B68
LoverTaylor Swift9B69
Sent From HeavenRahsaan Patterson4B73
I Am YoursAndy Grammer6B73
Lost in You (Remix)Jade Novah, Kevin Ross2A75
Best Part (feat. H.E.R.)Daniel Caesar, H.E.R.9B75
BeyondLeon Bridges2B76
never til nowAshley Cooke, Brett Young6B77
I GUESS I'M IN LOVEClinton Kane8B77
All Your'nTyler Childers1B78
Promise to Love HerBlane Howard1B79
EvermoreHollow Coves4B79
First Date - AcousticTaylor Acorn10B81
EverythingMary J. Blige4A82
Made to Love YouDrew Angus4B82
Forever To MeCole Swindell7B82
All of Me - Violin RemixJohn Legend, Lindsey Stirling4B84
Find Someone Like YouSnoh Aalegra11A85
Say You Won't Let GoJames Arthur9B85
Forever From NowSheffield11B86
At LastEtta James7B87
Like I'm Gonna Lose You (feat. John Legend)Meghan Trainor, John Legend7B88
Best FriendPacific Skyway8B90
First DanceHasan Green9A90
If I Didn’t Love YouBen Abraham12B91
Imagine - AcousticBen Platt3B94
ForeverNoah Kahan8B94
Let's Fall In LoveRaheem DeVaughn, Kenny Allen, H.M.P.2B95
PerfectEd Sheeran4B95
Always Gonna Love You - First Dance VersionAlana Springsteen11B96
Can't Take My Eyes off YouFrankie Valli7A96
Wonderful TonightEric Clapton9B96
Can't Help Falling in LoveElvis Presley10B100
Dancing QueenABBA11B101
Until I Found YouStephen Sanchez6B101
Beautiful CrazyLuke Combs1B103
PointlessLewis Capaldi8B103
Thank GodKane Brown, Katelyn Brown12A107
I'll Never Love Again - Extended VersionLady Gaga9B109
Baby I'm YoursArctic Monkeys10B114
Dance With YouBrett Young11B117
Stand By MeBen E. King11B118
The Rest of Our LifeTim McGraw, Faith Hill10B120
AmazingTeddy Swims11B120
First Dancin'2 Lane Summer11B120
Made For MeMuni Long6A120
I Don't Want to Miss a Thing - From "Armageddon" SoundtrackAerosmith10B121
Conversations in the DarkJohn Legend1A123
SeptemberEarth, Wind & Fire1B125
I Wanna Dance with Somebody (Who Loves Me) - David Solomon RemixWhitney Houston, David Solomon2B125
Life With YouKelsey Hart5B125
I Will Spend My Whole Life Loving YouImaginary Future, Kina Grannis1B126
In Your LoveTyler Childers9B127
Shut Up and DanceWALK THE MOON3B128
I Cross My HeartGeorge Strait5B131
The Way You Look TonightFrank Sinatra4A132
10-90Muscadine Bloodline8B132
Never Stop (Wedding Version)SafetySuit8B134
BiblicalCalum Scott12B136
Bless The Broken RoadRascal Flatts8B136
Better TogetherLuke Combs8B138
a thousand yearsChristina Perri6B139
Space in My HeartEnrique Iglesias, Miranda Lambert11B140
Love You AnywayLuke Combs12B140
AmazedLonestar3B140
Spin You Around (1/24)Morgan Wallen12B142
Luckiest ManClark Beckham4A143
Nobody But You (Duet with Gwen Stefani)Blake Shelton, Gwen Stefani8B144
Dressed Up In WhiteCAL5B146
My Best FriendTim McGraw11B148
In Case You Didn't KnowBrett Young6B148
Joy Of My LifeChris Stapleton5B149
All I Want Is YouThe Decemberists8A149
AmenJohn Adams10B152
From the Ground UpDan + Shay11B152
Forever After AllLuke Combs8B152
Growing Old With You - First Dance VersionRestless Road1B154
If You Love Her - feat. Meghan TrainorForest Blakk, Meghan Trainor3B156
My Person (Wedding Version)Spencer Crandall12B157
You - AcousticDan + Shay8B160
Perfect For MeBradley Marshall8B167
HeavenCalum Scott8B169
My WorldCalum Scott2B170
Sweet Symphony (feat. Chris Stapleton)Joy Oladokun, Chris Stapleton4B171
You Are The Reason - Duet VersionCalum Scott, Leona Lewis6B171
You Are the Best ThingRay LaMontagne6B171
Love SomeoneLukas Graham8A172
LifetimeJustin Bieber10B180
That's What Love IsAlexandra Kay3B182

*BPM and key pulled from SongData.io

Spotify First Dance Playlist

Tip

Have anxiety about your first dance? Practice beforehand, drink lots of water, eat throughout the day, and look into each other’s eyes and smile. You got this!

Do you have a favorite first dance song? Please share your song below in the comments.

Fun Facts

The most popular first dance song of all time is “Can’t Help Falling In Love” by Elvis Presley. There are many popular covers of the song to also include in the song’s popularity including Kina Grannis, Hailey Reinhardt, and Music Travel Love.

The wedding’s first dance is the first dance between newlyweds as a married couple. This should be the first dance at the wedding reception immediately following the grand entrance introduction.

The first dance can also start the formal dances following the meal.

The first dance is commonly followed by the father-daughter dance and mother-son dance.

The end of the ceremonial dances is marked by the entire wedding party dancing. The wedding party invites others to join. (See a playlist for the wedding party to dance to)

It’s your wedding party. The timing of the wedding couple’s dance at the reception is based on your preferences.

The first dance can be done immediately following the reception entrance songs. You can be surrounded by your wedding party if you wish.

If being watched makes you uncomfortable, that’s okay, too. Talk to your wedding planner, coordinate with the DJ, and earn more by reading our suggestions on how to format your wedding reception.

The progression of the evening is up to you, the wedding couple. The most important thing is to have the couple agree on a song that is special to them.

To inspire you, we’ve curated the best 100 first dance songs out of thousands to choose from.

Making your first dance special is as simple as choosing a song that has meaning to you, the wedding couple.

Wedding first dance songs are remembered by the wedding couple for the rest of their lives. So, it’s important to pick a song that is significant to you.

Some couples choose a funny song or an instrumental song. Those can be just as memorable as a touching ballad.

When the couple chooses the first song for a reason, it’s more special. Don’t be tricked into choosing a song because it is popular or traditional.

Also, remember that though people are watching you, this dance is for you. Make eye contact. Chat with each other. Caress your partner. Enjoy the moment — it’s for you.

No. The first dance at your wedding reception does not have to be slow.

However, choosing slow dance songs sets the mood for the entire reception. If you don’t have a song, select a song where the lyrics mean something to you.

Why do you think that Sarah McLachlan’s song “Ice Cream” is on many first dance song lists? It’s because it has cool words like “your love is better than chocolate, better than anything else that I’ve tried.” Corny? Maybe. But who cares what everyone else thinks? Maybe you met me at an ice cream parlor. If that were the case, then, the song would be awesome as a first dance song.

It’s okay to be creative. Choose a song that has meaningful lyrics. You don’t have to be like everyone else and dance to the overplayed Celine Dion love songs (not that there’s anything wrong with a classic love song).

Not only does the song not have to be slow, but it doesn’t have to adhere to any musical genre.

Many wedding couples take dancing lessons to a jazz song, classical, or rock ballad. That way, wedding couples don’t look goofy dancing in a circle through the whole song (like we did).

Couples who take dance lessons have a deeper connection to the song. It will have significant meaning to them for the rest of their lives since they spent so long practicing it.

They will also have the memories of getting the lessons together — a great break from the stress of planning the wedding.

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