Best Bette Midler Wedding Songs: From “Wind Beneath My Wings” to Divine Party Hits
Bette Midler’s music has a unique way of feeling like a grand movie moment. Her voice carries a theatrical weight that makes it perfect for the “big” emotional peaks of a wedding. Whether she’s covering a classic 60s hit or delivering a power ballad, she brings a level of sophistication and heart that few can match.
- Ceremony Classics: Beautiful, lyrical songs for the processional or recessional.
- Emotional Parent Dances: The definitive choice for honoring mothers, fathers, and mentors.
- Soulful Reception Covers: Fun, upbeat tracks that add a touch of “Divine” personality to the party.
Spotlight Moments: Parent Dances & Ceremony
- The Ultimate Tribute: “Wind Beneath My Wings” – 1988. This Grammy-winning classic from Beaches is the most requested song in history for a Mother-Daughter or Father-Daughter dance. Its message—“Did you ever know that you’re my hero?”—is the perfect way to honor a parent or mentor.
- The Timeless Aisle Walk: “The Rose” – 1979. This is a premier choice for a Processional. Its poetic lyrics about the endurance of love (“I say love, it is a flower / And you, its only seed”) create a breathtaking atmosphere for a bride’s entrance.
- The Spiritual Recessional: “From A Distance” – 1990. A soaring, hopeful track that works beautifully as you walk back up the aisle as a married couple. It captures a sense of peace and global love.
- The Intimate Cover: “In My Life” – 1991. Bette’s rendition of the Beatles’ classic is slower and more soulful, making it a wonderful choice for a First Dance or a quiet moment during the ceremony.
Reception & Party Starters
- The Fun Entrance: “Chapel Of Love” – 1972. Bette’s cover of this Dixie Cups classic is full of personality. It’s a fantastic choice for a Grand Entrance or even a Cake Cutting song.
- The “Slow-Burn” Soul: “When A Man Loves A Woman” – 1979. Taken from the film The Rose, Bette’s gritty, emotional take on this Percy Sledge classic is perfect for a late-night slow dance.
- The Retro Groove: “Do You Want To Dance” – 1972. Her first Top 40 hit. It starts as a slow, seductive track and builds, perfect for getting people from their seats to the dance floor.
- The Sophisticated Vibe: “Night and Day” – 1990. A classy, jazz-influenced choice for Cocktail Hour or dinner music. It shows off Bette’s range as a true “crooner.”
- The Devotion Ballad: “Every Road Leads Back To You” – 1991. A beautiful, mid-tempo song that works well for a Final Slow Dance or a slideshow.
DJ Expert Tips: Mastering the Midler Vibe
- The “Hero” Moment: If you’re using “Wind Beneath My Wings,” consider having the DJ do a “live” shout-out or a short introduction to explain who the hero in your life is. It adds a layer of personalization that makes the moment unforgettable.
- The Tempo Build: Songs like “Do You Want To Dance” are great “transition” songs. They start slow, allowing for a nice, intimate moment, but the beat picks up, giving the DJ a perfect “on-ramp” to a high-energy dance set.
- Mixing with the Divas: Bette Midler mixes perfectly with other powerhouse vocalists like Barbra Streisand, Celine Dion, and Whitney Houston. If you want a “Diva” set, Bette is an essential anchor.

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Bette Midler Highest-Charting Billboard Hits – U.S. Adult Contemporary
- #1 Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy, 1973
- #1 The Rose, 1980
- #1 From a Distance, 1990
- #2 Wind Beneath My Wings, 1989
- #8 Do You Want to Dance?, 1972
- #8 My Mother’s Eyes (Live), 1980
- #9 Friends, 1973
- #11 You’re Movin’ Out Today, 1977
- #13 From a Distance (Christmas version), 2006
- #15 Night and Day, 1991
- #15 Every Road Leads Back to You, 1991
- #15 White Christmas, 2003
- #16 My One True Friend, 1998
- #18 In the Mood, 1973
- #19 The Gift of Love, 1991
Better Midler Love Songs List
To Deserve You
Released in 1995 on the album Bette of Roses
I would die for you.
Could you ever love me that much?
In My Life
Released in 1991 on the album For the Boys
In my life I love you more
Every Road Leads Back To You
Released in 1991 on the album For the Boys
Cause no matter where I go,
Every road leads back
The Gift of Love
Released in 1990 on the album Some People’s Lives
Give me the gift of your sweet love
In the light of the day,
In the dark of night.
From A Distance
Released in 1990 on the album Some People’s Lives
It’s the love of loves
It’s the heart of every man
Night and Day
Released in 1990 on the album Some People’s Lives
It’s true that you and I don’t think alike
But when I look into your eyes and all is forgiven
Wind Beneath My Wings
Released in 1988 on the album Beaches Soundtrack
Did you ever know that you’re my hero,
And everything I would like to be?
When A Man Loves A Woman
Released in 1979 on the album The Rose
When a man loves a woman,
Gives her everything that he has
The Rose
Released in 1979 on the album The Rose
I say love, it is a flower
and you, its only seed
Do You Want To Dance
Released in 1972 on the album The Divine Miss M
You got to dance with me baby
Please dance with me baby
Chapel Of Love
Released in 1972 on the album The Divine Miss M
Goin’ to the chapel
And we’re gonna get married
Gee, I really love you
Bette Midler Famous Cover Hit
Wind Beneath My Wings (cover) – Gerald Levert & Eddie Levert
Released in 1995 on the album Father And Son
Bette Midler Spotify Playlist
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