There are so many great songs from The Wedding Singer to add to your own wedding playlist, including several hilarious and heartfelt tracks by Adam Sandler himself. Released in 1998 but set in the mid-80s, this “Rom-Com” classic captured the hearts of couples everywhere. Whether you want to recreate the iconic plane scene or just need some high-energy 80s New Wave for your reception, these songs are “first-class” choices.

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The Ultimate “Non-Soundtrack” Gem: “Grow Old With You” by Adam Sandler. Surprisingly, the most romantic song from the movie wasn’t on the original soundtrack! This simple, acoustic tune is one of the “most romantic parts of the whole movie.” With lyrics about making jokes when you’re sad and “growing old together,” it has become a popular choice for modern first dances or cake cuttings.
The 80s Rock Spirit: “White Wedding” by Billy Idol. Not only is this song featured on the soundtrack, but Billy Idol himself makes a legendary cameo in the film! It’s a high-energy “party starter” that brings an edgy, retro vibe to any reception dance floor.
The Quirky Crowd-Pleaser: “Rapper’s Delight” by The Sugarhill Gang (featuring Ellen Dow). The scene with the rapping grandmother is a fan favorite. While the original is considered the “very first rap record,” using this track at your wedding is a great way to inject some humor and “unmatched energy” into the night.
The Heartfelt Request: “That’s All” by Adam Sandler. Another track that missed the official soundtrack but captured the essence of the film. It’s a sweet, understated song where the demands are “small”—all that’s asked is to be “the one you’ll adore”.

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The New Wave Influence: As I mentioned in my 1980s book, tracks like The Thompson Twins’ “Hold Me Now” and New Order’s “Blue Monday” are essential for a “synth-pop” dinner or background vibe. They provide a “sophisticated but retro” feel to your cocktail hour.
The Humor Element: Don’t be afraid to use the quirkier tracks! As noted in the blog, “Somebody Kill Me” is a hilarious choice for couples with a dark sense of humor, while “Love Stinks” is a classic “anti-love” song that can be a fun inclusion during a bouquet or garter toss.
The “MTV” Connection: Remind your guests of the era’s history! “Video Killed The Radio Star” (featured in the film) was the very first music video ever shown on MTV. Playing it adds a layer of “pop culture history” to your reception.
The Slow Dance Standards: For a more traditional feel, Lionel Richie’s “All Night Long” and Journey’s “Don’t Stop Believin'” are featured in the movie’s universe and are guaranteed to keep the floor packed.

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The Wedding Singer Soundtrack

“Video Killed The Radio Star” by The Presidents Of The United States Of America
“Do You Really Want To Hurt Me” by Culture Club
“Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic” by The Police
“How Soon Is Now?” by The Smiths
“Love My Way” by Psychedelic Furs
“Hold Me Now” by The Thompson Twins
“Everyday I Write The Book” by Elvis Costello
“White Wedding” by Billy Idol
“China Girl” by David Bowie
“Blue Monday” by New Order
“Pass The Dutchie” by Musical Youth
“Have You Written Anything Lately?” (Dialog from the Film) – Original Cast
“Somebody Kill Me” by Adam Sandler
“Rappers Delight” by Sugarhill Gang With Ellen Dow

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You probably noticed that the best wedding song from the movie is not on the soundtrack. Weird, huh?! What song is that?

Someone was gracious enough to post a scene from the movie with the song being played on the plane. One of the most romantic parts of the whole movie.

Adam Sandler – Grow Old With You

I said I’d tell you jokes whenever you are sad
Make you a mom, if you made me a dad
Oh, it’s been so much fun
Growing old with you

Another song not to make the soundtrack is

Adam Sandler – That’s All

I’m asking in return, dear
You’ll be glad to know
that my demands are small
Say it’s me that you’ll adore

The Wedding Singer Soundtrack Credits

“Somebody Kill Me” by Adam Sandler
“You Spin Me Round (Like a Record)” by Adam Sandler (original by Dead or Alive)
“Der Kommissar” by After The Fire (original by Falco)
“Rapper’s Delight” by Ellen Albertini Dow (original by Sugarhill Gang)
“99 Luftballons” by Nena
“Til There Was You” by Ellen Albertini Dow (original by Meredith Willson)
“Don’t Stop Believin” by Journey
“Grow Old With You” by Adam Sandler
“Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” by Alexis Arquette (original by Culture Club)
“White Wedding” by Billy Idol
“Pass the Dutchie” by Musical Youth
“Boys Don’t Cry” by The Cure
“Holiday” by Adam Sandler (original by Madonna)
“Hold Me Now” by Thompson Twins
“All Night Long (All Night)” by Lionel Richie
“It’s All I Can Do” by The Cars
“Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic” by The Police
“Love Stinks” by Adam Sandler (original by J. Geils Band)
“Too Shy” by Kajagoogoo
“That’s All” by Adam Sandler
“Ladies Night” by Jon Lovitz (original by Kool & The Gang)
“Everyday I Write the Book” by Elvis Costello
“China Girl” by David Bowie
“Love My Way” by The Psychedelic Furs
“Do You Believe in Love” by Huey Lewis & The News
“Jam on It” by Newcleus
“You Make My Dreams” by Hall & Oates
“Blue Monday” by New Order
“Private Idaho” by The B-52’s
“Miami Vice Theme” by Jan Hammer
“Money (That’s What I Want)” by The Flying Lizards (original by Barrett Strong)
“Video Killed the Radio Star” by The Presidents of the United States of America (original by The Buggles)
“Hungry Heart” by Bruce Springsteen
“How Soon Is Now” by The Smiths
“True” by Steve Buscemi (original by Spandau Ballet)
“The Goofball Brothers Show” by Sourcerer
“Material Girl” by Madonna
“Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go” by Wham!

The Wedding Singer (movie)

The Wedding Singer was released in 1998. The style of the movie is “Rom-Com” (meaning Romantic Comedy). The main actors in the movie are Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore.

The movie cost an estimated $18 million and grossed $123 million worldwide.

Director: Frank Coraci
Writer: Tim Herlihy
Producers: Robert Simonds & Jack Giarraputo

What is The Wedding Singer about?

Adam Sandler plays a nice guy with a broken heart who plays a wedding singer. He loses all hope when he is abandoned at the altar by his fiancé. He meets a young woman named Julia (Drew Barrymore), who enlists his help to plan her wedding. He falls in love with her and must win her over before she gets married.

See all of the details about the film on IMDB.

Fun Facts

One of the songs on the soundtrack, “Video Killed The Radio Star”, was first released by The Buggles in 1980. The original was the very first music video shown on MTV.

Billy Idol not only was featured on the movie’s soundtrack, but he also was one of the actors in the movie!

The last song on the soundtrack, “Rappers Delight”, is considered to be the very first rap record.

Is there a song from The Wedding Singer that you included on your wedding playlist? Please share your song below with why it was picked – especially if it is an Adam Sandler song!

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